'We will never have the easy, unhesitating love of God that makes obedience to Jesus our natural response unless we are absolutely sure that its is good for us to be, and to be who we are. This means we must have no doubt that the path appointed for us by when and where and to whom we were born is good, and that nothing irredeemable has happened to us or can happen to us on our way to our destiny in God's full world.'
Dallas Willard, The Divine Conspiracy, p.370.
