Saturday, 27 February 2010

JESUS

'"My body is like this bread. It will break," Jesus told them. "This cup of wine is like my blood. It will pour out."
"But this is how God will rescue the whole world. My life will break and God's broken world will mend. My heart will tear apart - and your hearts will heal. Just as the passover lamb died, so now I will die instead of you. My blood will wash away all of your sins. And you'll be clean on the inside - in your hearts."'
Sally Lloyd-Jones, The Jesus Storybook Bible, p.292.

THE BIBLE

'Now some people think the Bible is a book of rules, telling you what you should and shouldn't do. The Bible certainly does have some rules in it. They show you how life works best. But the Bible isn't mainly about you and what you should be doing. It is about God and what he has done.
Other people think the Bible is a book of heroes, showing you people you should copy. The Bible does have some heroes in it, but (as you'll sooon find out) most of the people in the Bibles aren't heroes at all. They all make some big mistakes (some on purpose). They get afraid and run away. At times they are downright mean.
No, the Bible isn't a book of rules, or a book of heroes. The Bible is most of all a Story. It's an adventure story about a young Hero who comes from a far country to win back his lost treasure. It's a love story about how a brave Prince who leaves his palace, his throne - everything - to rescue the one he loves. It's like the most wonderful of fairy tales that has come true in real life!
You see the best thing about this Story is - it's true.'
Sally Lloyd-Jones, The Jesus Storybook Bible, p.16.

Wednesday, 24 February 2010

DEPRESSION

'We should be ashamed of ourselves.
Not the sufferers of clinical depression, but the rest of us. Throughout the Western world we have for years just stood and watched as our best citizens keep getting this horrific illness, offering them only blame, contempt and condescension. We Brits have been the world's worst at this.
If we are to protect our best sons and daughters and through them escape our latter-day tendency to mediocrity, we must start realizing that people who develop depressive illnesses need to be respected and nurtured. They are our doers and shakers; if we fail to recognize this, we will all lose.'
Tim Cantopher, Depressive Illness: The curse of the strong, p.100.

Monday, 22 February 2010

SELF-ESTEEM

'Another aphorism that should be chucked is "You must love yourself before you love others." A mountain of research shows that people who have good relationships with other people are happier and less depressed - and have higher self-esteem. The idea that self-esteem rises fully formed and perfect from inside the individual is a complete myth. We develop our sense of ourselves primarily from interacting with others. There is nothing wrong with this. Not only that, but narcissists - people who really love themsleves - are horrible relationships partners. Self-centred people are rarely fun to be around, and we all know this. So why do we keep telling people to love themselves first before others? Beats me. An aphorism that makes more a lot more sense, to modernize John Donne, is "No one is an island."'
Jean M Twenge, Generation Me, p.227.

SELF-ESTEEM

'Much of the "self-esteem movement" actually encourages narcissim, or the belief that one is better and more important than anyone else. Narcissism is a very negative personality trait linked to aggression and poor relationships with others. Somehow we've developed the notion that it's not OK to have a few insecurities, but it is OK to think you're the greatest and everyone else should get out of your way.'
Jean M Twenge, Generation Me, p.224.

Sunday, 21 February 2010

FRIENDSHIP

'Friends of mine who are lawyers and accountants often find it difficult to spare the time for a movie, a phone call to a long-distance friends, or a casual chat with a neighbor. In The Cost of Living, Barry Schwartz desribes a former student who says his friendships "were not that close. Everyone was too busy. He thought twice about burdening friends with his life and problems because he knew how consumed they were with their own, and what a sacrifice it would entail for them to spend the time required to listen to him and help him out." I put a Post-it note on that page and wrote, "This is a very familiar story."'
Jean M Twenge, Generation Me, p.115.

Saturday, 20 February 2010

SELF

'We speak the language of the self as our native tongue. So much of the "common sense" advice that's given these days includes some variation on "self":
  • Worried about how to act in a social situation? "Just be yourself."
  • What's the good thing about your alcoholism/drug addiction/murder conviction? "I learned a lot about myself."
  • Concerned about your performance? "Believe in yourself."(Often followed by "anything is possible.")
  • Should you buy that new pair of shoes, or get the nose ring? "Yes, express yourself!"
  • Why should you leave the unfulfilling relationship/quit the boring job/tell off you mother-in-law? "You have to respect yourself."
  • Trying to get rid of the bad habit? "Be honest with yourself."
  • Confused about about the best time to date or get married? "You have to love yourself before you can love someone else."
  • Should you express your opinion? "Yes, stand up for yourself."'
Jean M Twenge, Generation Me: Why Today's Young Americans Are More Confident, Assertive, Entitled - and More Miserable Than Ever Before, p.50.

Monday, 15 February 2010

CHRISTIANITY & AFRICA

'...a confirmed atheist, I've become convinced of the enormous contribution that Christian evangelism makes in Africa: sharply distinct from the work of secular NGOs, government oprojects and international aid efforts. These alone will not do. Education and training alone will not do. In Africa Christianity changes people's hearts. It brings spiritual transformation. The rebirth is real. The change is good.
I used to avoid thsi truth by applauding - as you can - the practical work of mission churches in Africa. It's a pity, I would say, that salvation is part of the package, but Christians baklck and white, working in Africa, do heal the sick, do teach people to read and write; and only the severest kind of secularist could see a mission hospital or school and say that the world would be better without it. I would allow that if faith was needed to motivate missionaries to help, then, fine: but waht counted was the help, not the faith.
But this doesn't make sense. Faith does more that syupport the missionary; it is alos transferreed to his flock. This is the effect that matters so immensely, which I cannot help observing.
First, then, the observation. We had friends who were missionarioes, and as a child I stayed often with them; I also stayed, alone with my little brother, in a traditional African village. In the city we had working for us Africans who had converted and were stromng believers. The Christians were always different. Far from having cowed or confined its converts , their faith appeared to have liberated and relaxed them. There was a liveliness, a curiousity, an engagement with the world - a directness in their dealings with others - that seemed to be missing in traditional African life. They stood tall.'
Matthew Parris, The Times, 27 December 2008.

Sunday, 14 February 2010

HEAVEN

'There have been times when I think we do not desire heaven; but more often I find myself wondering whether, in our heart of hearts, we have ever desired anything else...It is the secret signature of each soul, the incommunicable and unappeasable want.'
CS Lewis in Tim Chester, The Ordinary Hero, p.188.

DISCIPLESHIP

'Although status, not selfishness, but self-abasement.'
Michael Gorman in Tim Chester, The Ordinary Hero, p.161.