'This happened on December 30, 2003. That may seem a while ago but it won't when it happens to you.
And it will happen to you. The details will be different, but it will happen to you.
That's what I'm here to tell you.
You see me on this stage, you sit next to me at dinner, you know what happened to me.
You don't want to think it could happen to you.'
Joan Didion, Year of Magical Thinking (Play)
