'If your hopes and dreams are bound to your children or your spouse, you will be disappointed, perhaps even bitter. If you expect your spouse and/or your children to provide the comfort and support that can only come from God you will be deeply hurt. You will set yourself up to be disappointed and crushed when your family fails you. No spouse, no child can hope to provide comfort that can only be found in God. God will have no other gods before him. Your first loyalty must be to God and God alone.'
John A Younts, Everday Talk, p.145.