'...discipling is a kind of fashion modeling. No, you're not showing off clothes for the photographer; you're demonstrating a fashion, a way of living, for others to follow. Discipling is inviting them to imitate you, making your trust in Christ an example to be followed. It requires you to be willing to be watched, and then folding people into your life so that they actually do watch.'
Mark Dever, Discipling, p.40.