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Tuesday, 19 January 2016

PAINFUL INTIMACY

'Hurting someone is an act of reluctant intimacy.'

Hanif Kureishi, Intimacy, p.4.

Posted by Ed Shaw at 14:35

Labels: Hanif Kureishi, INTIMACY, RELATIONSHIPS

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